Bereavement is a darkness impenetrable to the imagination of the unbereaved.
—Iris Murdoch, 1974Quotes
In dealing with the dead, if we treat them as if they were entirely dead, that would show a want of affection and should not be done; or, if we treat them as if they were entirely alive, that would show a want of wisdom and should not be done.
—Confucius, c. 500 BCWhen a man dies, and his kin are glad of it, they say, “He is better off.”
—Edgar Watson Howe, 1911Can we not live without pleasure, who cannot but with pleasure die?
—Tertullian, c. 215The call of death is a call of love. Death can be sweet if we answer it in the affirmative, if we accept it as one of the great eternal forms of life and transformation.
—Hermann Hesse, 1950Epitaph, n. An inscription on a tomb, showing that virtues acquired by death have a retroactive effect.
—Ambrose Bierce, 1906There is no man so fortunate that there shall not be by him when he is dying some who are pleased with what is going to happen.
—Marcus Aurelius, c. 175Death and vulgarity are the only two facts in the nineteenth century that one cannot explain away.
—Oscar Wilde, 1891There never is absolute birth nor complete death, in the strict sense, consisting in the separation of the soul from the body. What we call births are developments and growths, while what we call deaths are envelopments and diminutions.
—Gottfried Wilhelm Leibniz, 1714I am not resigned to the shutting away of loving hearts in the hard ground.
—Edna St. Vincent Millay, 1928I don’t believe in an afterlife, although I am bringing a change of underwear.
—Woody Allen, 1971It is noble to die before doing anything that deserves death.
—Anaxandrides, c. 376We and the dead ride quick at night.
—Gottfried August Bürger, 1773